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Upcoming Appearances

September 26, 2021     Sadovarius ~ Scary Stories with Sir Horror

September 26, 2021    Toxic Relationship Recovery for People in the Lifestyle ~ You Can Love a Narcissist

October 1 - 3, 2021     Unabashed Queer Kink Con ~ DEI Panelist. Presenting: Kink Courses 101: The Appetizer & When East Meets West: Cultural Influences in Interracial Authority Transfer

October 5, 2021     Kink Positive ~ Stuck on You: Understanding Attachment in Dynamics

October 8 - 10, 2021     Kinky Kollege ~ It’s Sharp, and Pointy, and Kinda Scary ~ Dude Looks Like a Lady: My Life as an Aerosmith Song ~ Holy Shit, That Looks Painful! It's Not, Really... 

October 12, 2021     LNL ~ Why I Don't Own Them... Yet...

October 14, 2021     YYC BDSM ~ Dude Looks Like a Lady: My Life as an Aerosmith Song

October 16, 2021     Service Oriented Conference ~ ConService: Preparing for and Serving at a Kink/Leather Conference 

October 22, 2021     MAsT: Columbia, SC ~ Beyond Devotion: Edge Ownership Dynamics

October 23, 2021    Devyn Stone's Rainbow of Kink!

October 24, 2021     Exclusive Book Offer

November 6 - 7, 2021    SELF's Mayhem-Fall Edition

November 9, 2021     Kink Positive ~ A Darker Shade of Vulnerability: A Warrior’s Tale

November 13, 2021     TBA

November 16, 2021     LNL ~ To Make A Protocol PIE

November 19 - 21, 2021     TBA

December 2, 2021     TBA

December 3 - 5, 2021     TBA

December 7, 2021     Kink Positive ~ A BDSM Educator Primer (Class)

December 14, 2021     LNL ~ Organizational Authority Transfer

December 19, 2021     TBA

2022 Appearances

January 4, 2022     Kink Positive ~ The ABC's of Authority Transfer

February 1, 2022     Kink Positive ~ Tell it Who's Boss

February 12, 2022     TBA

March 1, 2022     Kink Positive ~ What Are You Afraid Of?

March 11, 2022     TBA

April 5, 2022     Kink Positive ~ Scary Stories with Sir Horror

May 3, 2022     Kink Positive ~ Self-Awareness in BDSM

July 14, 2022     TBA

June 7, 2022     Kink Positive ~ Areas of Control

July 14, 2022     TBA

August 9, 2022     TBA


Devyn Stone is a self-awareness and BDSM educator, author, and alternative lifestyles coach. He dreams of globe trotting and helping folx achieve the connections they desire, while they learn themselves more deeply.

He believes in diversity not division, and actualizes that idea by promoting strongly affirming spaces and interactions. Devyn has a passion for giving and receiving education - his favorite topics are psychology, negotiation, consent, relationship construction, and organization.

His “Quick Reference” books covered affirming gender, creating protocol, negotiating authority in relationships, and more. He is the Founder of Pragmatically Kinking, where members discuss the practical aspects of BDSM, and THRIVE, a virtual conference dedicated to the intersection of mental health and BDSM.

Devyn’s been actively practicing authority transfer dynamics since 2004. Today he lives in Colorado Springs, CO with his property, Guan-Xuan, who is unquestionably devoted to his will. Devyn is an extrovert, a Sons of Anarchy fan, and a foodie. 

Devyn Stone
Annual Students' Showcase

Kinky Queer Weekend 2021

A digital adventure!

September 24 - 26, 2021

Come join us for the digital return of Kinky Queer Weekend! A weekend for queers of every flavor of the TLGBQ rainbow, and those who want to build community with us. We are proud to center people who are often found on the edges of community.

Open to self-identified queers of all genders, 21+. Learn More.


Other Projects

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Welcome to the practical side of the lifestyle! This isn't the place to learn some hot new play technique or cruise for new play partners. It's where folks discuss the practical and emotional side of the BDSM/Kink/Leather/Nonmonogamy lifestyle. Find out more on Fetlife and Facebook!


THRIVE is a 3 day virtual conference aimed to bring mental health awareness, smash stigma, build support, and provide a space for BDSM/kink/Leather folx to learn, grow, and connect by moving through shame and discovering the warrior within. Check us out on Facebook and Fetlife!

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